I add a third category, which are those that would be different, but who still do not know how to do it, how to improve. Yes, 3 types of people that exist are: to) that manage what are proposed: regardless if appear obstacles in his path, or if everything seems that It will end badly, or if all are told they will never achieve their goals. However, and against all odds, against all odds, eventually make Summit, they conquer their goals. These people are intact, are happy anywhere you see them. (b) those who have excuses and stories: are those who deny reality, and always have a reason why things do not go as they would like.
I know that being fat makes me unhappy but I don’t have time to do exercise used to I tell to others. The sad thing is that not only lied to them I was lying to me! Such people always find someone external reason, the cause for which do not do what they should do. Finally, the life will find them in the end (all end up equal) giving excuses because they did not live as they could have lived. And, obviously, will blame others. Excuses are the worst obstacle to not take action and get the goals in life, because, at the brain level, you are justifying your inaction. On the other hand, if you recognize the truth, by painful though it is, you will avoid this evil and act to change it. (c) those who still do not know how to do to get what they want. They are people who, for reasons truly unrelated to them, did not know or could not access that spark that ignites the quest for knowledge, the desire to improve. However, as soon as these people see others who do act that way, automatically continue their way, because, internally, always they aspired to more, to be improved, to be different.